In a late-80's MTV interview with Terrance Trent Darby, he confessed that he got into pop music "for the same reason as the rest of the guys... to get laid."

The sex drive motivation runs deep in men. It is a biological, instinctive drive, and it's destructive to shame men for feeling it. In fact, it is so fundamental that I'd wager some of the greatest technological and cultural achievements ever have come from men driven by their frustrated sex drives.

However, instinct is not destiny.

I hope you meet the woman that makes you want to give up all other women. The one that keeps your dick hard and you balls empty, so that when you see another beautiful woman you might admire and appreciate her aesthetic, without feeling FOMO.