The way I think of it is, not as an entitlement or as “deserving,” but in term of needs and wants Ryan Chin

That is, I don’t deserve anything, because that implies that someone else is obliged to provide it for me (and that’s not true).

Nonetheless, I have legitimate needs (like fine, orgasmic sex0 and I have lots and lots of wants.

The question is, “What am I going to do so my needs get met and I earn many of my wants?”