This is asinine advice, Emma Austin, and it won’t help most women enjoy their dating experiences or build lasting relationships.

You write article after article about masturbation, kinky sex, dick pics, porn, and “How to Make a Women Squirt,” and now you’re watching YouTube videos about how to tell if he’s really interested enough in the complex person that you really are.

Balderdash.

Don’t use sex to snag claps, attention, and Medium member read time, and then counsel other women to disqualify men who fail to express interest in anything other than getting off on your pierced nipples.