This is helpful Tara Mae Mulroy

My intuition tells me that the kind of relationship you and your BF have wouldn’t work for me, which is one reason for not trying Tinder.

Of course, my experience might be different, but since you asked the “Why not try them?” question, I think my answer is, “Because I’ve never talked to anyone who could describe for me how it worked well for a man in a way that I thought would also work well for me.”