Well done, Vanessa Torre

One of the complaints that some men share with their friends is, “She’s too needy.”

That’s bullshit, and this is why.

When a Man can meet a Woman’s needs, his prize is a woman who is attached to him on the most deep level. That’s the level of attachment that keeps a woman faithful to him, that desires him.. that even needs him.

A Man wants to feel that woman’s need in the bedroom. It is one of the most exciting things that a man can have — the experience of her genuine desire.

When he says, “She is too needy,” he sets a trap for himself. He is saying, “What I really want is a Mommy that will take care of me and love me like my Mother loved me when I was a child.”

Except that leaves him with a problem, because no Woman experiences genuine sexual desire for a husband-child. At best, he gets duty sex.

Which will cause him to pout like the child he is.

And that’s a damn shame, because it won’t work for him or her.

I’m not looking for a “low maintenance” woman. I’m looking for a woman a woman capable of that genuine desire for me that is expressed both in bed and in life.

I’ll take her needs.